In my post yesterday I said I was going to make a serious effort to make friends and to be active in the community. Today was day 1! My church has a group for young adults that meets the second friday of each month called the EVENT. The promise of good food, fun and music is always tempting. I have been wanting to go but due to a forgetful mind I never made it.This time I set my computer and phone schedules to remind me.
OFF TO A BAD START
I go to a very big church that has two big buildings on the main location. I was running late and assumed that we would meet at the main church building where service is held. I ran in and saw a crowd of people in a room with the lights dim. I walked in the room and noticed a few kids and older folks. I thought maybe since it was a Christmas event everyone was invited; I took a seat. After a minute of hearing a testimony I looked around and saw the signs for the recovery group. OK…Wrong place
At that very moment they announced they were going to recite their vow. I thought it was a good idea to leave unnoticed at that point. I thought about going home and say that I at least tried. However, I decided to drive to the other building instead and try my luck. Thank goodness I finally found the right place.
Good times and “after Party”
It was a little uncomfortable at first when I walked in. Most people seemed to be in small groups around the room. I sat at a table with another guy that was there for the first time. A few minutes later a member from a male group asked the guy sitting with me to sit with them. I thought “great now its just me” thankfully that wasn’t for long. I was invited to sit with a group of girls that were all very nice. Through the next couple hours we played different games that came with prizes.
Highlight of my night- As groups we had six minutes to make a ginger bread house
Our Masterpiece
When the event at the church ended a group of us went to the “After Party” at Chili’s. Not your typical after party though, instead of liquor and beer we had coffee, water or tea. There were a lot of awesome conversations, good laughs and yes some random awkward moments. In all I had a GREAT night, I will definitely be going back!
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DeleteSweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeettt!!!!!!!! I love coffee and tea!!!!
ReplyDeleteI know you like coffee Ruth lol !
ReplyDeleteTakes courage to walk into an event not knowing anyone. I am amazed that you did it as I am not sure that I could. I hope that you make connections that will become friendships for you! Have a wonderful Christmas! Visited from Blog Lovin' this morning.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the kind words and Happy holidays!
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